ran the per correction, and 'update the run as user' same results... thing that stands out, is when i run the commands as the tcagame user, there is always 1 less listening port active then when i run the command as admin....
when running with the tcagame user, the server loads, and you can even see in in game server list, but you can not connect.... below are images of the netstat results when each attempt is made, nothing changed other then the user running the process....